in The Green Room

Her Grandchildren could do no wrong !

In the Life Celebration for Janet the Message that stood out was knowing, no one is perfect nor will they ever be.  Her friends and family had someone who loved them just as they were.  Her Grandchildren could do no wrong.  What she taught them, there is no right or wrong.  We just figure it out as we go, keep going, doing our best and do not settle for anything less than you are.

The Message that came thru for me was - we don't have a manual on how to raise our children.  We figure what works for one and then it doesn't work for the other and we have to figure it out again.  THEN, we have grandchildren, we see our children in their eyes, in their personalities and we get another chance to love them with what we have learned.  Acceptance, tolerance, patience, love, laughing and alot more dancing !  We get to live with our hopes and dreams - They can do no wrong - only opportunities for love to grow ~~

Wedding Message that clearly stood out in Dana and Nick's story was.  It just works !

What they had learned from their previous relationships is one I'm sure we can all relate to.  We cannot change or mold or hope another is going to fit into what we want or need.  It is being patient until the right one shows up.  How did they know they had found the right one.  It was easy.  They had learned to be themselves and that for a relationship to work they had to like themselves and each other for who they were... right now.   To Quote Nick   " It either works or it doesn't "  If it doesn't leave it, if it does keep it